DEAR CHRISTIAN SINGLES

Dear Christian Singles,

I know you think that it has been too long, I know you worry sometimes when you will meet him/her, I know you have dreamed of that moment when you will catch a glimpse of them, I know you have been disappointed when you find out they are not the 'one', I know you have been tempted to settle, I know that when you see happy couples online you wish it was you, I know you have told God over and over that you are ready to meet that person, I know you sometimes  do not feel pretty/handsome enough because you have no one beside you, I know there are days you feel enough and some days you feel well...less than enough, I know there are days you wish that you would have someone to unload your worries on, I know there are days the bed feels too cold, I know there are times you want to reconcile with an EX because you think you cannot do better and I know you wish you would know the time and place when you would meet them......

Thing is, it has not been too long, God needs to prepare both of you before you meet each other because He has a purpose for the two of you.

Thing is, you do not have to worry about when you will meet them because God has everything under control and the moment will be just right..it will be one that the two of you will look back and appreciate every second that led to that ONE moment....

Thing is, with the disappointment that comes with you finding out they are not the 'one' is actually God protecting you from a lifetime of regret, He is saving you from being with someone who you are not meant to be with...

Thing is, do not give into the temptation of settling, because God has HIS best in store for you, He will exceed your expectations and even meet the ones you did not know you had....

Thing is, its great to be happy for other couples but do not limit your idea of a good relationship to theirs, let God write a unique love story for you...it does not have to look like anyone else's, you do not have to meet like they met,it will be a different but beautiful story....

Thing is, God hears you and He knows when you will be ready because He sees the bigger picture and already knows how things will end....trust on His timing, it is P.E.R.F.E.C.T...

Thing is, being single does not mean that you are not pretty/handsome enough, there is NOTHING wrong with you, it only means that the time has not come for you to meet the person who will see your beauty and appreciate you for who you are....

Thing is, you are ENOUGH as a single person, no person on earth can complete you, you are smart, talented, good looking, funny etc, you are enough to live your life in abundance, you have what it takes to achieve your dreams and be the best you can be....

Lastly, Christian single, lay your relationship goals, list, wishes, etc at God's feet let Him handle it for you, let Him shape your desires for a spouse, let Him direct you..let Him have 100% control of things...I dare you today to surrender it all to the Author of love, let Him show you what true love means let Him lead you to His best.....

So go on travel, read stories, hang out with friends and family, get fun hobbies, date yourself,serve in ministry, live your life....let God do the rest....His yoke is easy...