Ladies: Through His eyes

Through the media's eyes we are NOT meant to  be anything above size 6, we are meant to be light skinned (well, until Lupita brought in the new light), tall, our skin is meant to be flawless, our teeth to glitter like we walk around with a mirror in our mouths to reflect the sun,...

We chase down men who we think are the finest things in town, we then sell ourselves short in order to keep him interested, we compromise, we stick to him and label ourselves as "a ride or die chick" even when he is busy lifting every skirt in town, even when he treats you like a doormat and a punching bag.

We are busy trying to emulate the so called IT-GIRLS because  that's what the world calls sexy, so we dress like them and end up looking like we had been running away from a lion trying to reap our clothes off, we end up partying like them and sleeping around with every muscle filled idiot who will tell us that we are hot because we drop it like its hot.

The enemy has us so deceived that we no longer see ourselves through God's eyes...instead we have found our identity from the world which leaves us broken, desperate and lost.

I just want to remind us to look at ourselves through His eyes...because through His eyes you are:

Beautiful....exactly the way you are...you are breathtaking...because He calculated every part of you before He put you together...your eyes, nose, hips, lips, your complexion...He saw you and He was pleased. 

A precious jewel....so you are meant to be  pursued and handled with care...a diamond does not lose its value because the person wanting to buy it cannot afford it...its something priceless that the owner keeps it safe and protected.

You are a daughter of a KING, so you are a princess...anyone who wants to have you must first go through the king..you are precious to Him such that if you let Him keep your heart He will allow the right man to have it at the right time.

Amazing, talented, smart, creative... you can achieve things that are beyond your wildest dreams...

Unique, loved, worth more than what people have labelled you....

Remember ladies....A man loved you so much that He died for you...so stop chasing down someone who does not want you, stop trying to emulate some other chick because the world calls her sexy...just be you.., stop struggling being in unhealthy relationships and let God write your love story....stop getting your identity from the world and get it from Christ....

See yourself THROUGH HIS EYES.